Whether you are new or experienced in the use of lesbian sex toys you may be surprised by the amount of choice that is now available on the current market. No longer are lesbian sex toys merely associated with strap ons and doubled ended dildos, although these types of products are still a popular choice amongst the lesbian community.

Strap ons in their traditional guise consist of a dildo that is attached to a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs similar to a pair of briefs. The harness is sometimes supplied with a number of O ring attachments so that if the dildo is detachable, it can easily be replaced with another one that has a different girth measurement. Although these strap ons are still a fashionable choice, there are now a number of different alternatives available. Strap ons now come with wireless and wired multispeed vibrators available as an alternative to dildos. A more recent development is the strapless strap on, either with or without vibration, which as the name suggests, does not include any harness or strapping, but instead comes with a bulbous shaped protrusion which can be inserted into either the anus or the vagina and allows for simultaneous pleasure to both partners.

Double ended dildos or double enders, come in the form of the conventional dildo but are considerably longer which allows for double penetration. Usually in the form of jelly dildos to ensure more easy insertion and better flexibility, double enders are also available with variable speed vibrating action and come in a selection of different lengths and girths depending on personal preference.

Love eggs and pleasure balls can be used in either the vagina or the anus. Either elliptical or circular in shape, these adult toys usually have a soft outer coating, sometimes with a nodular surface, and contain internal steel balls. Once inserted, the constant rolling motion can cause extensive pleasure to the user. Often coming as two balls or eggs connected by a sturdy Nylon cord, these sex toys can be used for sole pleasure or by both partners synchronously. Love eggs and pleasure balls also act an effective pelvic floor toner and exerciser, particularly post childbirth or menopause.

Butterfly sex toys or butterfly stimulators are worn as you would do a pair of briefs but there is one significant difference: they have built a built in vibrating action that stimulates the clitoris. This form of clit stimulator sometimes comes with a small penis plug that is inserted into the vagina for simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Clitoral massagers or pumps provide multispeed vibrations to the erogenous zone by causing an increased blood flow to the labia and vaginal area.

Adult toys for lesbians do not just come if the form of products that aim to exhilarate the clitoris, labia, vagina or anus. Female sex pumps can, in most cases, be used on the clitoris and the breasts. By using a hand pump and placing the suction cup over the breasts and nipples a tight vacuum is created thereby generating intense sensations. Some pumps also come with multispeed vibrating action built in to provide additional stimulation.

There are also a considerable number of female sex enhancement products available which intensify female intimate responses whether it is for the nipples, female g-spot or clitoris. With all this in mind, there are a significantly higher number of options available for lesbians today than in previous decades that cater for all budgets and come in a range of different styles, sizes and colours.

For more information on the different types of lesbian sex toys available, visit the Temptations Direct website.

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The Male G-Spot

The anus comprises of some of the most sensitive nerve endings per square inch compared with anywhere else in the body. The male G-Spot, also known as the prostate, is located deep within the rectum and when stimulated can lead to the sensation of an orgasm without ejaculation or any form of penile stimulation. The prostate gland can be also be massaged to provide health benefits. The use of prostate massage in a medical sense for prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland, has not been employed as a primary treatment of this condition since the 1970s however urologists still widely use it today as a part of a digital rectal examination in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer. 

Stimulation of the Male G-Spot

Some men, as well as being able to attain orgasm from the massage of the G-Spot alone with the aid of either a finger or a G-Spot stimulator (shaped similarly to a finger) in the form of a probe that can be twisted around, can also receive intense stimulation from anal intercourse. Arousal of this region is now much more commonplace in sexual relationships or in solo sexual activities. Today there are many more products on the market to help men achieve satisfaction from the G-Spot. Also popular amongst men are G-Spot vibrators, dildos and butt plugs.  Inserted into the rectum through the anus, anal sex toys are thought to provide a more intense orgasm for men than through sexual encounters that lead to ejaculation through the penis. Anal dildos and vibrators aimed at prostate stimulation often feature a curved tip in order to target the G-Spot more effectively. Adult toys aimed at male stimulation of this area come in a variety of sizes and include surfaces ranging from smooth to ridged in order to arouse the G-Spot region.

The Female G-Spot

A small bean shaped area located just behind the upper front wall of the vagina, the female G-Spot is usually a one and a half to two inch area that falls right inside the vaginal opening containing a multitude of stimulating impulses. If stimulated correctly, the female G-Spot can lead to multiple orgasms during one sexual encounter. Due to its positioning, the female G-Spot can often be hard to locate when receiving the male partner. Once aroused the female G-Spot has similar traits to the male erect penis in that it becomes hard and firm. It can also swell to the size of a walnut.

Invigoration of the Female G-Spot

The female G-Spot can be located for sole pleasure or gratification with a partner. A good way of doing this is to use a finger to explore the inside front wall of the vagina using firm upward pressure. The G-Spot will feel like a small lump and an urge to urinate will occur replaced by a feeling of sexual pleasure. There are also gels available that when applied to the area will temporarily enlarge the size of the G-Spot making orgasm easier to achieve. Female G-Spot vibrators, distinguished from the male equivalent as they are shaped more like a phallus specifically to target the G-Spot, can also provide arousal to the female. Only a number of sexual positions will allow the penis to continually invigorate the G-Spot as the female G-Spot is very difficult to locate when lying down.  Positions such as the rear entry sex position (doggie style) where the man kneels behind her when she is on all fours using pillows placed under the knees with the man and woman taking up positions as closely to each other as possible is one such position. Another good one is the female superior position in which she lies on top of the man with her legs on the outside of his legs and her body is parallel to his. While she is on top, she can kneel, squat or sit on top of his erect penis while he can penetrate deeply.

For more information about male or female G-Spot stimulators, please visit the Temptations Direct website.

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Ever wondered what it would be like to have a three some but too uncomfortable to actually ask or find someone that you and your partner will be comfortable with?

Sex dolls have changed over time with the first being sculpted out of ivory – the maker of whom admired his craftsmanship so much he fed her, bathed her, slept with her, and indeed put her to the use of what was to become known as a “sex doll”. Over time, sex dolls have evolved and changed both with the way they are now made, and how they look, but also the way society are more accepting of them. 

Sex dolls vary in price ultimately reflecting the overall quality of the doll. The cheaper in the product price range being made of welded vinyl. These are inflated for pleasure and are the most common sex dolls and can be found in a variety of high street shops. 

Following on from these and moving up in price are sex dolls made from a heavier latex. These dolls follow the same design as a mannequin and have properly moulded hands and feet, glass eyes, and usually wigs too. Some of these dolls contain water filled breasts and buttocks, although this is at the top end of this price band. These dolls can be personalised with a variety of clothing, make up and wigs personal to your own taste.

The sex dolls at the top end of the price banding are made from silicone and are much more life-like. They are made with a skin like material, to make the experience that much more personal. These dolls can be modelled on real men and women with some even being custom made or made to look like celebrities. They have real hair and a flexible skeletal structure making it easy to achieve many different sexual positions, both for acts and display.

Both the mid and higher price ranged dolls become more specialised and therefore you will not find them in common high street shops. When buying these dolls you need to be sure of the quality. Temptations Direct can ensure this by providing you with knowledge and the quality as a trusted online sex shop, and also offer other sexual products such as condoms to aid with the sex doll or your personal sex life.

Sex dolls add huge excitement to your sex life, whether you chose to use them alone, or with another person or people, but best of all they can be used to fulfil all sexual wants, needs and fantasies. For an even more explosive experience, why not surprise your partner with a safe and new outlet to un-cage your deepest fantasies and role play… be creative… add sexy lingerie, dildos, and even vibrators to help enhance your experience and guarantee you a night you wont want to end…

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Sex toys have been around in one form or another for hundreds of years but they are becoming more popular than ever in modern day society. Often referred to as marital aids, sex toys facilitate sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website purchaser figures illustrates that the proportion of women and men buying sex toys is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being consumers. If you are new to sex toys and want to try them out for the first time to heighten sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy this guide could help you to make a decision.

What type of sex toy is the best to start off with?

Which sex toy to start with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of an adult toy? Sex toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal sex toys, male and female sex pumps, sex dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative sex toy for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some degree of flexibility such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative sex toys such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to prolong an erection which is firmer and fuller that can lead to increased sexual satisfaction for both parties. These cock rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal cock rings, which cause considerable restriction to the wearer.

Size and cost matters

Other important factors to consider are size and cost.  Start small and work up to bigger sex toys when you are more experienced. Mini vibrators deliver a fantastic orgasm but are small enough to be transported just about anywhere. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your first purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a sex toy. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and therefore do not result in a considerable outgoing.

Use sexual lubricants

If you are a beginner to penetrative sex toys it is always advisable to use a sexual lubricant. This is especially important in the use of anal sex toys as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally produce their own lubrication so it is imperative that anal lubrication is used for more pleasurable and comfortable anal sex toy pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to condition the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably easier. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more comfortable.

Sex toy cleaner

On purchasing your adult toy you should also contemplate buying a sex toy cleaner. Cheap to buy, this additional item should be utilised immediately after sex toy use to keep it clean. Safe, effective and ant-bacterial, sex toy cleaners help to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria and help to keep your sex toy last for longer.

For more information on the variety of sex toys available, visit the Temptations Direct website.

All around the world, there will always be a handful of couples that have been left unsatisfied by their sexual partners. Others may also say that the occasional use of some sexy lingerie is no longer enough to ensure that their sex doesn’t get boring. The general consensus that regular love making is becoming dull has made sex toys such a valuable addition to a couple’s sex life.

So how does the use of sex toys like dildos or vibrators enhance someone’s sexual experience? As a relationship continues to progress, there is a tendency for the couple’s sex life to become boring because foreplay becomes more and more neglected. Essentially, some couple’s have chosen to press the fast-forward button of the sex, skipping the excitement that foreplay produces and diving to intercourse right away. The addition of sex toys to the sexual experience gifts the couple with the ‘spice’ and passion that they may be losing.

Sex toys generally provide more playfulness and pleasure to the entire sexual experience. For example, the simple use of a vibrator can make sex more enjoyable for the woman as it prepares her for actual intercourse. The simple knowledge that you are pleasuring your partner is also something that a man will enjoy. When a couple uses sex toys together, it also has a tendency to make intercourse more intimate and thus helping the couple grow closer in other aspects of their relationship.

Sex dolls, vibrators, dildos and any other kind of sex toy imaginable were all made for the sole purpose of heightening pleasure and giving the user a greater orgasmic experience than that of regular masturbation. So, if you’re looking for a way to add more spice to your sexual life, taking a trip to the sex store such as http://www.temptationsdirect.co.uk should be on your agenda.