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The Male G-Spot

The anus comprises of some of the most sensitive nerve endings per square inch compared with anywhere else in the body. The male G-Spot, also known as the prostate, is located deep within the rectum and when stimulated can lead to the sensation of an orgasm without ejaculation or any form of penile stimulation. The prostate gland can be also be massaged to provide health benefits. The use of prostate massage in a medical sense for prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland, has not been employed as a primary treatment of this condition since the 1970s however urologists still widely use it today as a part of a digital rectal examination in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer. 

Stimulation of the Male G-Spot

Some men, as well as being able to attain orgasm from the massage of the G-Spot alone with the aid of either a finger or a G-Spot stimulator (shaped similarly to a finger) in the form of a probe that can be twisted around, can also receive intense stimulation from anal intercourse. Arousal of this region is now much more commonplace in sexual relationships or in solo sexual activities. Today there are many more products on the market to help men achieve satisfaction from the G-Spot. Also popular amongst men are G-Spot vibrators, dildos and butt plugs.  Inserted into the rectum through the anus, anal sex toys are thought to provide a more intense orgasm for men than through sexual encounters that lead to ejaculation through the penis. Anal dildos and vibrators aimed at prostate stimulation often feature a curved tip in order to target the G-Spot more effectively. Adult toys aimed at male stimulation of this area come in a variety of sizes and include surfaces ranging from smooth to ridged in order to arouse the G-Spot region.

The Female G-Spot

A small bean shaped area located just behind the upper front wall of the vagina, the female G-Spot is usually a one and a half to two inch area that falls right inside the vaginal opening containing a multitude of stimulating impulses. If stimulated correctly, the female G-Spot can lead to multiple orgasms during one sexual encounter. Due to its positioning, the female G-Spot can often be hard to locate when receiving the male partner. Once aroused the female G-Spot has similar traits to the male erect penis in that it becomes hard and firm. It can also swell to the size of a walnut.

Invigoration of the Female G-Spot

The female G-Spot can be located for sole pleasure or gratification with a partner. A good way of doing this is to use a finger to explore the inside front wall of the vagina using firm upward pressure. The G-Spot will feel like a small lump and an urge to urinate will occur replaced by a feeling of sexual pleasure. There are also gels available that when applied to the area will temporarily enlarge the size of the G-Spot making orgasm easier to achieve. Female G-Spot vibrators, distinguished from the male equivalent as they are shaped more like a phallus specifically to target the G-Spot, can also provide arousal to the female. Only a number of sexual positions will allow the penis to continually invigorate the G-Spot as the female G-Spot is very difficult to locate when lying down.  Positions such as the rear entry sex position (doggie style) where the man kneels behind her when she is on all fours using pillows placed under the knees with the man and woman taking up positions as closely to each other as possible is one such position. Another good one is the female superior position in which she lies on top of the man with her legs on the outside of his legs and her body is parallel to his. While she is on top, she can kneel, squat or sit on top of his erect penis while he can penetrate deeply.

For more information about male or female G-Spot stimulators, please visit the Temptations Direct website.

There are many more male sex toys available in the adult market than you would expect.  The traditional favourite of men everywhere, the cock ring, is now successfully being rivalled by anal sex toys, anal beads, dildos, anal douches, vibrators, sex dolls, gay sex toys such as anal plugs and prostate stimulators, male masturbators, penis sleeves, chastity belts, penis pumps and male sex enhancement products.

Cock Rings and Toys

Traditionally worn at the base of the penis, a cock ring can maintain an erection that can be thicker, firmer and longer lasting due to it restricting the blood flow to the penis.  This can therefore be beneficial to both partners. Cock rings in the form of sex toys are usually made from silicone or rubber, which have a slight give in them. Some silicone cock rings even have removable vibrating bullets included and some have clitoral stimulating nodules attached for added gratification for the female partner. Cock rings that are made of leather or metal are classified as cock and ball torture devices as they have very little, or in the case of the metal cock rings, no give in them at all and are for men that are more into pleasure and pain than merely pleasure. Male chastity devices also fit into this category. Intended to keep the male under lock and key, an erection is virtually impossible to achieve whilst wearing one.

Anal Sex Toys

Anal sex toys such as anal douches, anal beads and anal plugs (also known as butt plugs) can be used by men and women alike. This can also be said for anal vibrators. As one of the oldest forms of sex aids anal beads are available in a variety of lengths each containing differing numbers of beads. These beads usually get larger the further down the string you go. Anal beads are designed to dramatically increase orgasmic sensations if withdrawn at the point of ecstasy. Anal plugs are often bulbous in design and stimulate the anal passage when thrust in and out. They are usually made of silicone for easier insertion and come in varying sizes, most of which have a suction cup base so they will stick to almost any surface, leaving hands free for other pursuits. Vibrators usually come in the form of vibrating butt plugs and multispeed anal vibrators. Male g-spot vibrators, as the name suggests, are solely designed for the benefit of men, and have a specially curved tip aimed at stimulating this region.  Prostrate stimulators are also specifically for the arousal of men.

Penis Pumps

Male sex pumps, also known as penis pumps, aim to enhance not only the girth of the penis but also the length and the hardness. This is achieved by placing the penis in a cylinder which is attached to a hand pump. When the pumping action is applied a vacuum in the cylinder is achieved causing additional blood to rush to the penis. Some pumps also come with multispeed vibrators built in often leading to a more quickly achievable erection. The size augmentation of the penis is only designed to be a temporary measure however some pumps claim that if used regularly this will result in a permanent increase in length and girth.

Male Masturbators and Sex Dolls  

For masturbatory pleasures, as well as consisting of penis pumps (which can also be categorised as male masturbators), male sex aids consist of penis sleeves that have patterns and nodules on the inside to provide different sensations and can be either single or open ended, oral sex simulators, realistic feeling replica vaginas and anuses, and penis tubes which also consist of varying inner sleeves, some of which vibrate. Sex dolls, featuring up to three different tight, succulent love holes depending on the model, are becoming increasing popular. They are not just used as male masturbators but are also employed for fun threesome activities with a partner.

Moreover, with male sex enhancement products that are intended to increase the volume of sperm released, pheromones to increase sexual appeal and sprays to heighten the quality and longevity of an erection also commonplace, there are an abundance of sex toys and enhancers available for men nowadays.

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Saucy Valentines gifts will really get both you and your partner in the mood for a night to remember! Temptations Direct has specially selected a number of gifts specially selected to cater for men and women, starting at under £5. Enhance your bedtime experience with sex toys, adult board games or sultry underwear, or get into the role play spirit with sexy costumes or a silky blindfold. If you want to experience a bit of everything then try out an extra special sexy gift set. One thing you can be sure of is this Valentines will be one that you won’t forget in a hurry!

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Let’s say you’ve just made a quick visit to your favorite sex shop. You’ve taken the time to carefully consider the many different options of vibrators, dildos and anal toys that the store has to offer. Understandably, the first thing you may want to do when you open your brand new sex toy is to put it to good use. However, before you take the plunge into sexual bliss, there are a few things you need to know about caring for your sex toys.

First things first, before you actually start using your new sex toy, take a few moments to inspect it just to make sure that there aren’t any flaws in the production of the item. It is often an individual’s best bet to purchase the sex toys made out of silicone or other safe materials like food-grade vinyl or stainless steel. If you’re unsure about the sex toy, it’s always a good idea to have a condom handy to use on the dildo, vibrator or anal sex toy. Make sure you also read any information online such as the ones you can see on http://www.temptationsdirect.co.uk.

Although no sex toy will last forever, keeping your dildos, anal sex toys and vibrators clean will ensure that you maximize the life of your toys. Make sure you use a sex toy cleaner or mild soap and hot water to make certain that the toy has no bacteria or harmful dirt on it before and after use. Because the sex toys are meant to be used on the most intimate parts of the human anatomy, it is absolutely important to ensure that the sex toys are clean before any use.

To prolong the life of your sex toy also means finding a proper and safe storage area for the items. Before putting the sex toys away, make sure that they have been dried thoroughly to prevent any growth of substances such as mildew. Also be sure to keep your dildos or other sex toys in a dry place with nice cool temperatures to avoid any discoloration.

Sex toys are instrumental in an enhanced sexual experience whether you use them in foreplay or throughout the whole love making process. Keeping them clean and storing them well is easy when you’ve got the basics of sex toy care down and keeps you carefree when using your toys.

Homosexual and Bisexual men have known the secrets of Prostate Massage since time began and now as the subject of sex and sexual enjoyment becomes less and less taboo, more heterosexual men are exploring this hidden delight. Men are beginning to realise that enjoying deeper sexual pleasures in a heterosexual relationship or on their own, does not make them gay, and this changing of opinion is opening the door to more and more men to explore their own sexual needs more thoroughly.

What and Where is the Male G-Spot?
The Male G-spot is the common name for the Prostate Gland, a walnut shaped gland that is responsible for a male erection, orgasm and ejaculation. It is located on the Front Wall of the Anal Canal, about 3-4″ inside the rectum.

What happens when it is stimulated?
Many men suffer with Prostate congestion, where a build up of old fluids can cause discomfort and pain, when the prostate is stimulated manually you will feel a release of this congestion, you will experience greater sexual function including a firmer erection and you will experience great sexual pleasure as more blood and oxygen flood to the region. You will also benefit from a healthier prostate which in the longer term will help with sexual dysfunction issues and reduce the likelihood of prostate problems.

A Male G-Spot Orgasm
By massaging the G-Spot you will undergo a sexual experience never before enjoyed, that’s a promise! When you orgasm the experience is more intense, it lasts for longer and it involves a whole body feel from your feet up to your head, and you don’t always ejaculate – and with experience you can make sure you don’t ejaculate, so you can enjoy the experience over and over again without fear of losing your erection. There is no doubt you will enjoy the experience, and with prolonged use you will lean to control the experience, at first you will not know what has hit you, but in time you will learn to get a longer lasting benefit.

How do I get started?
We recommend using a Prostate Massager. We carry a wide range of Male G-Spot Products that can all be used equally and for beginners we recommend using the Nexus Glide products that are specifically designed for first timers.

You need to have a few hours of spare, undisturbed time on your hands. Get everything together, your massager, a couple of towels, a quality lubricant and something to get you stimulated, maybe a DVD. We recommend using a Silicone based lubricant, it is long lasting and doesn’t go tacky. Because we are dealing with the Anus you may be worried about any faeces, in actual fact the anal canal is normally clean. We do recommend emptying your bowels about half an hour before you begin and if you are worried about any faeces you should clean yourself with a home enema douche, they are a cost effective way of maintaining hygiene and piece of mind.

• Now, relax. Relax and just breathe, feel your lungs inflate….and then deflate, nice and steadily, feel your whole body begin to relax.
• Begin to stimulate yourself, enjoy your DVD or magazine, maybe touch yourself around the penis and anal area, this begins to pull blood to the area, try to enjoy the arousal without impatience, this is a training session that should be completely controlled.
• Lie on your towels, initially on your side, with your knees slightly bent, and insert your lubricated massager, keep breathing and relaxing and with each breath notice your anal muscles relax as you probe further and further until you have insertion. Try to forget about your penis, this will detract from the real job in hand – it may be difficult, but you have to just forget about it.
• Get used to the feeling of the massager inside you, enjoy watching your DVD or your other stimulant, don’t touch the penis and just feel the massager inside you.
• You will begin to notice a change inside, this is your prostate swelling with the blood flow, this is good. Try contracting your muscles as you breathe in and you will begin to feel waves of sensation running through your body, gently move the massager and enjoy the different feelings, find what feels good and enjoy.

Further pleasures
Lying on your side is the most effective way to enjoy full body orgasms and as you become more used to these experiences you may like to try different positions and enjoy the different feelings that these generate, try kneeling, or lying down.

Every Man has a Perineum, it is located on the outer body, between the scrotum and the anus. Try finding this spot and massaging it by gently digging your finger into the skin. On it’s own the gentle massage of this area will not yield great pleasure, but with the combined use of a massager, it will heighten your sensation and will help to create the unstoppable G-spot orgasm.

The main tip is to keep practicing, it will get better and better and you will find that your normal penile orgasm will begin to get longer and longer and will yield a greater pleasure.

Hygiene and Safety Tips
You can use condoms with all sex toys, if you haven’t cleaned your massager we always recommend a condoms use, it will not detract from your experience in any way. We always recommend cleaning sex toys, and your massager should be cleaned appropriately, depending on the material use a sex toy cleaner and or Warm Soapy Water. You should buy a massager with a wide base, the reactions of the rectum can be to pull the sex toy inwards and so the wide base prevents over insertion.