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The Male G-Spot

The anus comprises of some of the most sensitive nerve endings per square inch compared with anywhere else in the body. The male G-Spot, also known as the prostate, is located deep within the rectum and when stimulated can lead to the sensation of an orgasm without ejaculation or any form of penile stimulation. The prostate gland can be also be massaged to provide health benefits. The use of prostate massage in a medical sense for prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland, has not been employed as a primary treatment of this condition since the 1970s however urologists still widely use it today as a part of a digital rectal examination in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer. 

Stimulation of the Male G-Spot

Some men, as well as being able to attain orgasm from the massage of the G-Spot alone with the aid of either a finger or a G-Spot stimulator (shaped similarly to a finger) in the form of a probe that can be twisted around, can also receive intense stimulation from anal intercourse. Arousal of this region is now much more commonplace in sexual relationships or in solo sexual activities. Today there are many more products on the market to help men achieve satisfaction from the G-Spot. Also popular amongst men are G-Spot vibrators, dildos and butt plugs.  Inserted into the rectum through the anus, anal sex toys are thought to provide a more intense orgasm for men than through sexual encounters that lead to ejaculation through the penis. Anal dildos and vibrators aimed at prostate stimulation often feature a curved tip in order to target the G-Spot more effectively. Adult toys aimed at male stimulation of this area come in a variety of sizes and include surfaces ranging from smooth to ridged in order to arouse the G-Spot region.

The Female G-Spot

A small bean shaped area located just behind the upper front wall of the vagina, the female G-Spot is usually a one and a half to two inch area that falls right inside the vaginal opening containing a multitude of stimulating impulses. If stimulated correctly, the female G-Spot can lead to multiple orgasms during one sexual encounter. Due to its positioning, the female G-Spot can often be hard to locate when receiving the male partner. Once aroused the female G-Spot has similar traits to the male erect penis in that it becomes hard and firm. It can also swell to the size of a walnut.

Invigoration of the Female G-Spot

The female G-Spot can be located for sole pleasure or gratification with a partner. A good way of doing this is to use a finger to explore the inside front wall of the vagina using firm upward pressure. The G-Spot will feel like a small lump and an urge to urinate will occur replaced by a feeling of sexual pleasure. There are also gels available that when applied to the area will temporarily enlarge the size of the G-Spot making orgasm easier to achieve. Female G-Spot vibrators, distinguished from the male equivalent as they are shaped more like a phallus specifically to target the G-Spot, can also provide arousal to the female. Only a number of sexual positions will allow the penis to continually invigorate the G-Spot as the female G-Spot is very difficult to locate when lying down.  Positions such as the rear entry sex position (doggie style) where the man kneels behind her when she is on all fours using pillows placed under the knees with the man and woman taking up positions as closely to each other as possible is one such position. Another good one is the female superior position in which she lies on top of the man with her legs on the outside of his legs and her body is parallel to his. While she is on top, she can kneel, squat or sit on top of his erect penis while he can penetrate deeply.

For more information about male or female G-Spot stimulators, please visit the Temptations Direct website.

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Why should men have all the fun when it comes to sex toys? With male sex toys such as male masturbators, cock rings and toys, penis pumps, sex dolls, penis sleeves and manhood enhancement products catering specifically for male sex needs and dildos, vibrators, love eggs and bullets, nipple clamps and anal sex toys accounting for the sexual requirements of both sexes, what is aimed specifically at the female erogenous areas?

Rabbit Sex Toys

First introduced in 1998, rabbit sex toys are now established as one of the most popular sex toys used by females. Rabbit sex toys, also known as rabbit vibrators, vary from classic vibrators as they not only feature a shaft for internal vaginal stimulation but attached to this is a smaller vibrator, often in the shape of a rabbit that provides external stimulus to the clitoris via the tickling motion of the rabbit’s ears. Rabbit vibes also often have pleasure pearls built into the shaft that rotate at various speeds during penetration causing a more formidable orgasm. Dolphin and bear clitoral stimulators are also now common in place of the rabbit feature but they are still classed as a form of rabbit sex toy.    

Female Sex Pumps

Sex pumps are not only available for men. Female sex pumps aim to arouse the erogenous areas by either increasing the flow of blood to the clitoris or the breasts thus augmenting the pleasure to the labia and the nipples. This is achieved by using a sucking motion to create a vacuum in the pump chamber. Some female pumps also have the added benefit of having a vibrating motion to tickle the intimate female areas simultaneously.

Butterfly Stimulators, Clit Clips and Clitoral Stimulators

Butterfly stimulators, also known as butterfly sex toys, are discreet enough to be worn underneath clothing (for the more daring who wish to wear them whilst out) and generate variable speed massaging vibrations to the clitoris when activated. Coming either with wires or as wireless units some butterfly stimulators also come with mini internal stimulators thus providing twice the excitement. Clit clips in the guise of clitoral jewellery can be worn if you have a clitoral piercing or if you do not. They not only highlight the most intimate feminine areas but more importantly heighten sexual sensations.  Clitoral Stimulators, otherwise known as clit vibrators, traditionally take the form of cock rings that are worn on the base of the penis and have a bumpy surface that arouses the clitoris during intercourse. Mini finger vibrators also fall into this category; they can be used either with a partner or for solo masturbation. 

Strap Ons

Popular amongst gay and straight couples, a strap on is a dildo that is traditionally worn with a harness during intercourse. Aiming to stimulate the anal or the vaginal passage, they can also be used for solo or mutual masturbation.  A relatively recent innovation to the strap on market is the strapless strap on. Balancing or a sturdy base, strapless strap ons can simultaneously act on both vaginal and anal areas.  

Moreover, with a variety of female sexual enhancement products also available that aim to heighten clitoral sensitivity, heighten orgasms and increase the size and feeling of the female g-spot, female sex toys and enhancement products are just as effective as sex toys aimed solely at the male market.

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Let’s say you’ve just made a quick visit to your favorite sex shop. You’ve taken the time to carefully consider the many different options of vibrators, dildos and anal toys that the store has to offer. Understandably, the first thing you may want to do when you open your brand new sex toy is to put it to good use. However, before you take the plunge into sexual bliss, there are a few things you need to know about caring for your sex toys.

First things first, before you actually start using your new sex toy, take a few moments to inspect it just to make sure that there aren’t any flaws in the production of the item. It is often an individual’s best bet to purchase the sex toys made out of silicone or other safe materials like food-grade vinyl or stainless steel. If you’re unsure about the sex toy, it’s always a good idea to have a condom handy to use on the dildo, vibrator or anal sex toy. Make sure you also read any information online such as the ones you can see on http://www.temptationsdirect.co.uk.

Although no sex toy will last forever, keeping your dildos, anal sex toys and vibrators clean will ensure that you maximize the life of your toys. Make sure you use a sex toy cleaner or mild soap and hot water to make certain that the toy has no bacteria or harmful dirt on it before and after use. Because the sex toys are meant to be used on the most intimate parts of the human anatomy, it is absolutely important to ensure that the sex toys are clean before any use.

To prolong the life of your sex toy also means finding a proper and safe storage area for the items. Before putting the sex toys away, make sure that they have been dried thoroughly to prevent any growth of substances such as mildew. Also be sure to keep your dildos or other sex toys in a dry place with nice cool temperatures to avoid any discoloration.

Sex toys are instrumental in an enhanced sexual experience whether you use them in foreplay or throughout the whole love making process. Keeping them clean and storing them well is easy when you’ve got the basics of sex toy care down and keeps you carefree when using your toys.